[LOVES]
my girl, except that stubborn streak of cos!(ooo...and that laziness)
my family. I'm a family man ok
my kids. ok, FUTURE kids.
[HATES]
lazy bums. *tsk tsk*
getting skinny....
...and getting fat
no, I'm not sounding confused. U are the confused one.
skinny as in arms, and fat as in belly. Got it?
told you I hate talking to goons.
Note: This page was written by my ex gf, just wanna keep it as a memory...
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Hey its me again. Who do u expect then? Here i am blogging before the xmas. It will be a busy week ahead since i need to organise outing for my sec friends, darling's xmas cum 21st bdae party and then my jc outing coming up. So i better take this chance when i am still free to update my blog.
Just took my ippt test this evening. Although i managed a perfect score, my 2.4 km run timing was 10.05 min. Actually i didnt really put in a lot of effort to train for this test. My aim is just to clear silver which means a timing of under 11 min will do. Gold would require 9.14 min which i am not going to bother training. Hence, i trained for abt a week, 3 to 4 runs, and went ahead with the test. Surprisingly, i was the first person to complete the run for my detail. Hopefully, this will continue for a few more years. I can really feel my fitness dropping. Study, study, study....
OK, back to the book i was reading. I am abt 3/4 done. Let's see what i can share here.
"Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed.
Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished"
Another paragraph i liked is this:
"Quite often, when one partner makes a positive change the other will also change. This predictable coincidence is one of those magical things abt life. When the student is ready the teacher appears. When the question is asked then the answer is heard. When we are turly ready to receive then what we need will become avaliable. When the Venusians(women) were ready to receive, the Martians(men) were ready to give."
I feel the way the book has wrote. For a relationship to work out, both parties have the responsibility to put in their effort. It would be selfish to think that the other party should change for you or vice versa. More often than not, the changes are all chain reactions. One change leading to another. But i always bear in mind that whatever happens, the relationship itself is the most impt thing.
The book also describe men as being like rubber band and women as waves. When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. A woman's self-esteem rises and falls like a wave. When she hits the bottom, it is time for housecleaning. Think abt the above and see if u can relate it to your own experiences. I certainly can.
Argh.. super tired now. Ok shld not write more here.. see ya after xmas..
Merry xmas!
sin83
12/21/2005 08:44:00 PM
